17.You are Fortunate

 17.You are Fortunate

In 1982 Steven Callahan was crossing the Atlantic alone in his sailboat when it struck something and sank. He was out of the shipping lanes and floating in a life raft, alone. His supplies were few. His chances were small. Yet when three fishermen found him seventy-six days later, he was alive - much skinnier than he was when he started, but alive. When people survive these kinds of circumstances, they do something with their minds that gives them the courage to keep going. Many people in similarly desperate circumstances give in or go mad. Something the survivors do with their thoughts helps them find the guts to carry on in spite of overwhelming odds. "I tell myself I can handle it," wrote Callahan in his narrative. "

Compared to what others have been through, I'm fortunate. I tell myself these things over and over, building up fortitude…" I wrote that down after I read it. It struck me as something important. And I've told myself the same thing when my own goals seemed far off or when my problems seemed too overwhelming. And every time I've said it, I have always come back to my senses. The truth is, our circumstances are only bad compared to something better. But others have been through much worse. I've read enough history to know you and I are lucky to be where we are, when we are, no matter how bad it seems to us compared to our fantasies. It's a sane thought and worth thinking. So here, coming to us from the extreme edge of survival, are words that can give us strength. Whatever you're going through, tell yourself you can handle it. Compared to what others have been through, you're fortunate. Tell this to yourself over and over, and it will help you get through the rough spots with a little more fortitude.

survive vt.比...活得长，幸免于难，艰难度过

desperate adj.绝望的，不顾一切的

fortitude n.刚毅，坚毅，不屈不挠

rough adj.粗糙的，粗略的，粗暴的，艰难的，讨厌的，不适的

raft n.筏，救生艇，大量v.乘筏，制成筏

survival n.生存，幸存者

handle n.柄，把手v.买卖，处理，操作，驾驭

fortunate adj.幸运的，侥幸的

narrative n.叙述，故事adj.叙事的，故事体的