Not understood by others 有没有觉得别人不理解自己

Not understood by others

If we keep aloof from others, or observe others from the edge of the world, we would tend to think that no one understands us and it is impossble for us to change others either. Consequently, we begin to escape from havingany thing to do with the world, and loneliness creeps in. If you suffer from this, read on to see how the good-knowing advisors act.

Instead of keeping aloof and repelling others, the good-knowing advisors practice the four princples of caring people, namely, giving, loving words, beneficial conduct and working together. They recogonize the kindness from others, keep it in their mind, and strive to repay this kindness. They stay close with ordinary people, work with them, and build up connections with them. They put their ego aside and carry out altruistic acts with great compassion.

When we do beneficial deeds for others, a good karma will be created.Thus the good-knowing advisors try their best to practice the four principles of caring people, to bring them happiness, all in the hope of building up good connections with them.

In other words, helping others verifies the value of our life. To help the more people the better. This is after all what we aspire for.

有没有觉得别人不理解自己？

心里自己放得太高太远，放到世界的边缘。觉得别人不理解自己，而自己也改变不了别人，所以慢慢就躲得越来越远，就会感到孤独。学学善知识怎么做的吧。

善知识对众生，不是清高排斥，而是布施、爱语、利行、同事，知恩、念恩、报恩，生活在众生中，身体力行与他们一起做事、结缘，放下自己、慈悲利他。

当我们做了对他人有利益的事情之后，彼此的善缘增加了。善知识对众生“布施、爱语、利行、同事”，努力做种种令众生欢喜的事，就是为了和众生结善缘。

自己的行为能够帮到别人，正说明生命有价值，要能够帮助到越来越多的人更好，这本身就是我们所愿。