假如让我重新养育孩子

If I Had My Child to Raise over Again

If I had my child to raise over again, I’d finger paint more, and point the finger less. 

I'd do less correcting, and more connecting. 

I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. 

I would care to know less and know to care more. I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.

I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.

I'd run through more fields, and gaze at more stars.

I’d do more hugging, and less tugging.

I would be firm less often and affirm much more.

I'd build self-esteem first. and the house later .

I'd teach less about the love of power and more about the power of love.

It matters not whether my child is big or small. 

From this day forth, I'll cherish it all.

每个生命的诞生都不是孩子自主选择的结果。孩子的童年对他一生的影响十分重大。给孩子一个快乐的童年，珍惜他成长的每一天。因为那段快乐的时光，是他治愈成年诸多伤痛的力量源泉。