【10月16日】问“Do you understand me?" 真得很不礼貌!

2023-07-28 03:04:4903:32 4万
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A friend of mine told me that he plans on going to the gym. I asked him why, and he said “I want to build muscle and to this and that and blah blah blah”. A bunch of different reasons. He wasn’t too sure if I understood what he meant. So he asked me: “do you understand me”? Now,think- how would you feel if someone asked you that. It’s as if they were saying:你不能理解是因为你理解能力有问题。so, I,myself would not say it like that. If I wanted to ask someone: 你懂我意思吗?, I would say: "Did that make sense?" Because this way it’s as if I were saying: “我解释得不太清楚,这个可能导致你理解有问题”. As you can see, it’s a lot more polite this way. Also, if you are explaining something to someone,the way a teacher is explaining something to students, and you are not just giving them some information,you can also use: “Was that clear?”.Clear 代表清楚;在这里我们不只要对方懂,我们要他们深度地理解。


有个朋友说要开始去健身房,我问他为什么。他说增肌等等,反正给了几个理由,他不是太确定我是否理解了他的意思,所以问道:“do you understand me?" 考虑一下,如果有人这样对你说,你会有什么感受?是不是好像他们在说“你不能理解是因为你理解能力有问题。”所以如果换成我,我要问“你懂我意思吗”,我会说"Did that make sense?"这样一来会给人的感觉是“我解释得不太清楚,这个可能导致你理解有问题”。有礼貌很多。如果你是在解释一些原理什么的,像老师教学生那样,你不想仅仅给他们传递信息,你也可以用“Was that clear?” Clear 代表清楚;在这里我们不只要对方懂,我们要他们深度地理解。

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Did that make sense?

Was that clear?

你懂吗?



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I normally eat very little, but I’m going to eat a lot on Thanksgiving. Did that make sense?

我平时吃得很少,但是感恩节那天会释放地吃,你懂我意思吗?


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请大家在留言中翻译:

答案应该是A,因为其他选项都有语法的错误。你懂我意思吗?

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听友99133439

The answer supposed to be the A.Because the others all have grammer mistakes.Did that make sense?

顺其自然CD

我一般会说:do you know what I mean? Or did I expressed myself clearly?

顺其自然CD 回复 @顺其自然CD

Did I express myself clearly? 不过还是老师讲得好,👍

马子宁_k8

怎样预习收听?是先看字幕三遍再听还是听三遍在看字幕

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