SWEET DREAMS
No Sweet Dreams for Couple at Bedtime
DEAR DR. ELLIS:
I'm married. Every night my husband "tells" me when it's time for us to retire for the night. This can be anytime from 9:30 to 11:30 p.m.
If I tell him that I'm ready for bed he gets upset. If he's ready to get into bed, and I want to finish a book I'm reading, he gets upset.
According to him, married men and women should go to bed "together," period! It is always on his timetable. Needless to say, we have gone to bed angry many times.
How do we figure it out without getting angry and resenting each other? TIRED OF BEING TIRED, Des Moines, Iowa
Vocab
sweet dreams: good sleep
bedtime: sleeping time, time when you go to sleep
Dr: doctor (person with a Phd degree)
to retire: to rest
to retire for the night: to go to bed ready for bed: ready to sleep upset: very unhappy, emotional get into bed: go onto, go to sleep according to him: in his opinion period: definitely, absolutely timetable: schedule
needless to say: obviously, of course
have gone: were (several times in the past until now) figure it out: find an answer, find a solution resenting: angry (about something in the past)
Des Moines: a town
Iowa: a state (in the USA)
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