So I often get letters from people saying, where can I find love? How do I find love? And people think love is something to be run after, to be chased after, to be earned.
我经常收到这样的来信，人们说，去哪里我才能找到爱？怎样我才能找到爱？人们认为，爱，需要追寻，需要追求，需要获取。
So, if you will have this belief, I've gotta work for love. I've gotta earn love. I gotta find someone who doesn't appear to really love me and then work really hard to show them how amazing.
所以，如果你也这样想，你觉得自己需要努力才能拥有爱。你想，我要获取爱，要找到一个人，这个人看起来不一定爱我，但是我会努力让这个人知道，我有多好。
I've got to chase after them, make an effort, and that's not true. You see, love should make you feel really good about you.
你想，我要追寻他们，努力获得他们的心。这是不对的。爱，应该让你感觉自己很棒。
And if your feeling is, I feel really good about them. I got this great girl, this great guy, but I don't feel good enough, and I gotta work to make them love me. That's a mistake.
如果，你的感受是，他们真棒，我眼前这位女孩真棒，这位男孩真棒，但我觉得自己不够好，我必须努力让这个人爱我。这是错误的想法。
So, whenever you're with anyone, I want you to ask yourself one question, how do I feel about myself when I'm with this girl, this guy, this man? And if the answer is, I didn't feel good enough, that's not the person for you.
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