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审视内心——爱从你开始。 Look inward-the loving begins with you.

“Love is the essential existential fact. It is our ultimate reality and our purpose on earth."
爱是存在的基本事实。这是我们在地球上的终极现实和目的。”

there's one desire we all share: We want to feel valued.
each of us, at our core, longs to be loved, needed, understood, affirmed-to have intimate connections that leave us feeling more alive and human.我们都有一个共同的愿望:我们想感到被重视。我们每个人，在内心深处都渴望被爱、被需要、被理解、被肯定——这种亲密的联系让我们感觉更有活力，更有人性。

The yearning to feel heard, needed, and important is so strong in all of us that we seek that validation in whatever form we can get it.

我们所有人都渴望被倾听、被需要、被重视，这种渴望是如此强烈，以至于我们都在寻求任何形式的认可。

we all want to feel like we matter to somebody.
我们都想让别人觉得我们很重要。

What I know for sure is that a lack of intimacy is not distance from someone else; it is disregard for yourself. It's true that we all need the kind of relationships that enrich and sustain us. But it's also true that if you're looking for someone to heal and complete you-to shush that voice inside you that has always whispered You're not worth anything-you are wasting your time. Why? Because if you don't already know that you have worth, there's nothing your friends, your family, or your mate can say that will completely convince you of that. The Creator has given you full responsibility for your life, and with that responsibility comes an amazing privilege-the power to give yourself the love, affection, and intimacy you may not have received as a child. You are the one best mother, father, sister, friend, cousin, and lover you will ever have.

我可以肯定的是，缺乏亲密感并不意味着与他人保持距离;这是对你自己的漠视。的确，我们都需要那种丰富和支持我们的人际关系。但如果你想找个人来治愈你，让你变得完整——让你内心那个一直在说你一文不值的声音安静下来——你就是在浪费时间。为什么?因为如果你不知道自己的价值，无论你的朋友、家人或伴侣说什么都无法完全说服你。造物主已经给了你对你的生活的全部责任，与此责任相伴而来的是一种惊人的特权——给你自己爱、感情和亲密的能力，这是你小时候没有得到的。你是你一生中最好的母亲、父亲、姐妹、朋友、表姐和爱人。

Connection-1(look inward-the loving begins with you)

Connection-1(look inward-the loving begins with you)

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