vol.54 你有多独立，就有多美好

欢迎你来到跨国播客「宇宙乘客」，这是一个建立在七个小时时差之上的「未来生活方式实验室」，一端位于中国，一端位于西班牙。

「有趣的是，受教育程度越高的女性生养的孩子越少，而在发展中国家，甚至是基本的读写能力都和生育率呈反比——文化程度越高，生育率越低。换言之，当女人掌握了重要的技能，开始权衡人生了，她们就能很快看透：她们不会因为生孩子而得到足够的补偿。」——《最好的决定》by 梅根·多姆

MT 在推特上说：「在一个鼓励结婚、鼓励生育的环境里，每一个结婚的女孩儿都会得到祝福，每一个生了儿子的女人都会开满月酒，然而思前想后挣扎了好几年才决定丁克的我，最后开了一个推特帐号。」

本期节目的主要内容有：

01:25 宇宙乘客的付费音频和付费电子杂志《能量飞船》每个月 1 日在爱发电平台上线，讨论丰富的人生发展可能性，提供更多的世界行为模范，欢迎付费开启收听权限和联系出版合作：https://afdian.net/album/9669cd00a51811eb936552540025c377；

03:58 我们和地球之间的关系取决于我们对待资源的态度，希望宇宙乘客的帆布袋可以帮你减少使用塑料袋，在日常生活中多使用骨瓷杯而避免塑料杯，支持宇宙乘客的环保周边：https://afdian.net/@yuzhouchengke?tab=shop；

05:06 本期的彩蛋来自韩国的创业者善，这里是一段三分钟的录音，当她在帮自己公司的女员工去申请韩国的母婴课程时，发现无法勾选 CEO 选项，因为系统里的设置里，默认 CEO 是男性。全程录音如下：

MT: Hello, I would like to introduce you Sun. I contacted her from LinkedIn and we had a conversation about feminist, entrepreneur in Korea and I would like to introduce her project to you guys.

Sun: Hi my name is Sun. I'm from Korea, based in Soul. I’m a traveller and I’m also an entrepreneur and also I'm a mom of one boy. I'm running a business connecting the local communities with travellers while travelling. I'm also working for the environment saving the rainforest. Many people asked me how do you travel with the son, with the baby? How do you balance your work and your housework? I also question it a lot by myself: how do I balance and what is the difference between men and women? What is the different job or duty of mom and dad while travelling? I was also confused at the beginning because I've never been in this life, it's also my first life and first of 35 years old, first being a mom and first being of life and first living as a working mom, as an entrepreneur. I don't know if I really figure out the answer yet, but I'm just kind of figuring out rather than answering, trying to figure out what I really like and what I really want to do. What kind of person I want to be and the most important thing is rather than the boundary between the gender, or between the age, or between the nationalities, beyond the borders just being myself, which will be the best answer. Just being yourself would be enough. Actually, I have many ideas, I’m not sure whether I really deliver the message.

MT:  Yes, we were talking about when you are walking on a way which nobody has ever been, you have no idea how many people will follow you in the future. So I got a lot of inspiration from Sun’s story. So after we have a conversation, we also talked a lot of things we couldn’t deliver this information in this one-minute recording. But people could find more information about her project on Facebook or Instagram, which I’ll put in the show notes later. That’s all, thank you.