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You have to consciously work throughout the years your children are young to help them see “success”in the things you want to be part of your culture. For example, when one of our sons was very young,we learned that children in his class were bullying another child at school, and nobody was doing anything to stop it.Kindness had been one of our goals, but it had not yet become part of our culture.We came up with a new family motto:“We want Christensens to be known for kindness.” We worked it into conversation— and, in particular, taught our son how he could help his classmate who had been bullied.We praised him when he helped his classmate, as well as any of our children when they demonstrated kindness to others. We made it part of our culture.
Over time, this had the effect we wanted. Each of our children became truly kind women and men. Wherever they are,in whatever corner of the world they are in,I do not worry about what they will do when confronted with a problem.The first thought in their minds will be “We want Christensens to be known for kindness.”
你必须有意识地在你的孩子还小的时候，帮助他们在你希望成为你文化一部分的事情上看到“成功”。例如，我们的一个儿子很小的时候，我们得知他班上的孩子在学校欺负另一个孩子，没有人做任何事情来阻止。善良曾是我们的目标之一，但它尚未成为我们文化的一部分。我们想出了一个新的家庭格言:“我们希望克里斯滕森斯以善良闻名。”我们运在谈话中——特别是，教我们的儿子如何帮助被欺负的同学。他帮了他的同学，我们表扬了他，我们任何一个孩子对别人表现出善意，我们也表扬。我们让善良成为我们文化的一部分。
随着时间的推移，产生了我们想要的效果。我们的每个孩子都成了真正善良的人。无论他们在哪里，无论他们在世界的哪个角落，我都不担心他们在遇到问题时怎么做。他们脑海中的第一个想法将是“我们希望克里斯滕森斯以善良闻名。”

Consciously work throughout

Consciously work throughout

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