小孩子不会观察别人的态度，没经过同意就自作主张，玩闹时不知轻重用力太大，都会让其他孩子难以接受。我们常说的“好好玩”，含义包括“讲礼貌、尊重他人、不伤害别人”等等，英文里比较接近的说法是Don't play (with your friends) too rough。
重要的是，家长还要给孩子具体的建议，怎么才算好好玩，比如：抢玩具的情况：Grabbing toys from other kids is not acceptable.从别的小朋友手里直接把玩具拿过来是不可以的。 I know you really wanted to play with that truck, but you have to ask the owner whether you can take turns playing with it or play together.我明白你特别想玩那个小卡车，但是你也要先问问它的小主人，你们是不是可以轮流玩，或者一起玩。 Don't play so rough!
要好好玩！
It isn't respectful of the other children.
那样（直接抢玩具）是不尊重其他小朋友的。 没有明白对方感受的情况：Could you try to lower your voice?
你说话声音能稍微小一点吗？That girl is avoiding you now because you've been standing too close to her and speaking too loudly.那个小女孩现在老躲开你，因为你刚才一直跟她站得太近了，说话声又太大。Go talk to her more softly, okay?你过去跟她轻一点说话，好吗？
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