Anyone can develop confidence.
任何人都能变得自信。
Some might have to work on it harder than others because they have conditioned themselves into a lack of confidence for much of their life, but anyone can develop confidence.
有些人长期生活在自卑的状态中，他们为了变得自信，可能要付出更多的努力，但确实任何人都可以变得自信。
Even the majority of shy people have moments where they aren’t shy，like around people they trust, maybe family, friends or their partner, moments where they can be themselves fully.
即便是大部分腼腆的人，他们也有不腼腆的时候。比如在他们信任的人面前，或许是他们的家人、朋友或者伙伴，或许是在他们尽情展现自我的时候。
So the shyness is selective, which means you can make confidence permanent if you consciously decide to be the person and do the things you do, not just around those you trust the most, but all the time.
所以，其实害羞也是选择性的，那就意味着，如果你始终有意识地展现自己，做自己该做的事，而不是在最信任的人面前才如此，那你就能一直保持自信。
……
受字数限制，完整版文稿获取方式：
关注微信公众号【YOU书社】，
在公众号后台私信“讲解”二字，
即可收到本专辑演讲稿的下载链接。
用户评论