Love means identifying with the person I love. If I love you, I can empathize with you and see the world through your eyes. I can identify with you because I’m able to see myself in you and you in me. This closeness does not imply a continual “togetherness,” for distance and separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship.Distance can intensify a loving bond, and it can help us rediscover ourselves, so that we are able to meet each other in a new way. 爱意味着能够理解自己所爱的人,如果我爱你,我就能与你有同样的同感,我就能通过你的眼睛看世界,我能理解你是因为我在你身上看到了我自己。这种亲密关系并不是说要长相厮守,因为距离和分别对于相爱来说有时是有必要的,距离可以增强爱的联系,还有助于重新发现自己,这样我们就能够以新的方式面对对方。
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