Caring for what other people think is a natural human tendency. We all want to be liked and accepted. But in a world full of constant judgment, the power to genuinely not care about people's opinions is truly liberating. Discover Sam's transformative journey from an ordinary boy to a confident, self respected individual unfazed by others opinions.
关心别人的想法是人类的一种自然倾向。我们都希望被人喜欢和接受。但在一个充满了不断评判的世界里，真正不关心别人意见的能力是真正的解放。探索山姆的转变之旅，从一个普通的男孩到一个自信、自尊、不受他人意见影响的人。
Once upon a time, there lived a young boy named Sam. People often laughed at Sam for his love of collecting pebbles. He was bothered and felt sad and alone. One day, his wife's grandmother saw his pain and decided to offer some advice. Sam, she said, if you care too much about what other people think, you'll only make yourself miserable. Their words can't hurt you unless you let them. Remember, only you have control over your feelings and choices.
从前，有一个名叫萨姆的小男孩。人们经常嘲笑萨姆喜欢收集鹅卵石。他很烦恼，感到悲伤和孤独。一天，他妻子的祖母看到了他的痛苦，决定给他一些建议。萨姆，她说，如果你太在意别人的看法，你只会让自己痛苦。他们的话不会伤害到你，除非你听之任之。记住，只有你能控制自己的感受和选择。
Carrying his grandma's words in his heart, Sam started ignoring the teasing. He stopped talking about his passion to others, not because he was ashamed, but because he was doing it for himself, not to impress. Instead, he focused on his love for pebbles. Cherishing every smooth stone he found, Sam displayed courage and steadfastness regardless of the laughs and the pointing fingers. He realized he didn't need anyone's approval to love his pebbles. He started to respect himself more. His self worth was no longer tied to people's opinions, but his happiness. There was a day when the tallest boy laughed louder, calling Sam a silly pebble boy right before everyone. But Sam didn't feel the familiar shame. Instead, he smiled and continued his pebble hunt.
萨姆把奶奶的话记在心里，开始无视别人的嘲笑。他不再和别人谈论他的激情，不是因为他感到羞耻，而是因为他这么做是为了自己，而不是为了给人留下深刻印象。相反，他专注于对鹅卵石的热爱。山姆珍惜他找到的每一块光滑的石头，不顾嘲笑和指责，表现出勇气和坚定。他意识到他不需要任何人的认可来爱他的鹅卵石。他开始更加尊重自己。他的自我价值不再与人们的看法挂钩，而是与他的幸福挂钩。有一天，个子最高的那个男孩笑得更大声了，当着大家的面叫萨姆是个傻石头男孩。但山姆没有那种熟悉的羞愧感。相反，他微笑着继续他的鹅卵石搜寻。
Sam dedicated himself to finding the most captivating pebbles, revealing his best version world. In doing so, he noticed some changes. People stopped mocking him and often sat watching him, curiously captivated by his unwavering passion and dedication. His grandmother's words fueled Sam's spirit. Chasing what you love doesn't need validation from others. Sam, be proud of your journey. What matters is how you see yourself, not how others see you. Embracing his grandmother's wisdom, his marvellous Pebble collection flourished. He won a local contest, filling him with an indescribable joy. To his surprise, his unwavering determination to stay true to himself was a path toward success.
山姆致力于寻找最迷人的鹅卵石，展示他最好的世界。在这样做的过程中，他注意到了一些变化。人们不再嘲笑他，常常坐下来看着他，好奇地被他坚定不移的热情和奉献所吸引。奶奶的话鼓舞了萨姆的精神。追求自己喜欢的东西不需要别人的认可。山姆，为你的旅程感到骄傲吧。重要的是你如何看待自己，而不是别人如何看待你。他继承了祖母的智慧，收藏了大量的鹅卵石。他赢得了当地的一次比赛，心里充满了说不出的喜悦。令他惊讶的是，他毫不动摇的忠于自己的决心是一条通往成功的道路。
It's not easy to stop caring about what others think. You need to keep trying and work hard at it. You can't get this ability overnight, but can improve it with practice. But it's worth it. Living for other's approval is a limiting life strategy. Everyone's outlook differs. Pleasing everyone is impossible. Being overly concerned about judgments hinders personal growth, encourages self doubt and can lead to anxiety or depression.
不去关心别人的想法是不容易的。你需要继续努力，努力学习。你不可能在一夜之间获得这种能力，但可以通过练习来提高。但这是值得的。为别人的认可而活是一种有限的生活策略。每个人的观点都不一样。让每个人都满意是不可能的。过度关注他人的评判会阻碍个人成长，鼓励自我怀疑，并可能导致焦虑或抑郁。
Remember, you're the author of your life. Embrace your uniqueness, accept imperfections and live by your standards. The only validation needed is your own. And I'll leave you with a thought from the great Marcus Aurelius. It never ceases to amaze me. We all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own. May this strike a chord with you and assist you in moving forward with courage and self confidence. Thank you for watching. Take good care and remember, stay true to you.
记住，你是自己生活的作者。拥抱自己的独特性，接受不完美，按照自己的标准生活。唯一需要的是你自己的验证。最后，我将给你们讲伟大的马可·奥勒留的一个想法。它总是让我感到惊奇。我们都爱自己胜过爱别人，却更在乎别人的意见而不是自己的意见。愿这能引起你的共鸣，并帮助你带着勇气和自信向前迈进。感谢收看。好好照顾自己，记住，忠于自己。
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