The more you care, the more hurt you get 越在意，受的伤害就越深

The more you care, the more hurt you get.
【Xian’er says so: “How not to care?”】
Wang Xiaowu noticed that Xiansan is skinny.
So he said: “Look at you, you are way too thin.
This explains Buddhism is not good, and vegetarian diet is not good for you.”
Xian’er responded: “Wang Xiaowu, it’s alright you are not a Buddhist.
It is not OK for you to find fault with Buddhism.  
So what Xiansan is skinny.

What does that have to do with being vegetarian.
I too am a vegetarian.

How do you explain that I am chubby?”
Wang Xiaowu said: “Then you must be secretly eating meat at night.”
Xian’er suddenly turned furious and was about to explode…
If it is not for Shifu, I would have..…”

Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’s insight on the path to speaking like a Buddha.
The more you care, the more hurt you get.
When you are calm, rumor will gradually die out. 

越在意，受的伤害就越深

【贤二如是说：如何才能不在意】

王小五见到贤三比较瘦，
就说：“你看看，都瘦成这样了，
正好说明佛教不好，吃素不好，
所以才这么瘦。”
贤二说：“王小五你不信佛就不信佛，
别没事总找茬。
人家瘦一点，就说人家吃素不好 。
那你看我这么胖，你怎么解释？”
王小五说：“那你肯定是晚上偷偷吃肉。”
贤二顿时就火大，简直要爆……
要不是看在师父的面子上，早就……

以下来自我师父的《好好说话》
自己在意，
受的伤害就越深；
自己坦然，
谣言就会慢慢止息。