EP26 什么李敏镐洛阳铲的，真正的男神是爸爸！斯密士变身暖男

“My daddy was humorous and talented and was nice to everyone. I wanna be a guy like my dad.” “我爸很幽默很有才华，对人也很友善。我长大要成为跟他一样的人。”

爸爸是我们见到的和一起生活的第一个男人。我们对世上男人的印象与处理人际关系的态度很大程度上取决于对爸爸的印象。但是爸爸也是人，有时候更需要我们的鼓励与关怀。改变一些小小的细节，也许你跟爸爸的关系会变得更加融洽。额，我说的是，“你的爸爸。。。” 奥运金牌飞人博尔特在阿根廷跑赢公交车后说：“中国公车司机敢与吾一较高下否？”

Do you feel that you and your dad have grown apart? You can make your relationship with your dad stronger. Here’s how! 你是否发现你跟老爸已经渐行渐远？其实你可以完全让你跟老爸关系变得的更加紧密。下面就是一些让你跟你爸更紧密的小贴士。

Give dad a clue 给老爸一个提示

Sometimes dad can be a little clueless about kids. He ‘d probably love it if you confided in him, shared your interests, or ask him to help you solve a problem, but he might not know how to tell you that. He may have no idea how to start a serious conversation with you or tell you he’d love to teach you how to build a web site or throw a basketball. If that’s the case, it’s your job to help him out! 有时候爸爸可能不太了解孩子，但是如果你跟他分享秘密，跟他说自己的兴趣爱好，或者请他帮忙解决问题，他准会很乐意。他可能不知道怎么跟你开口，比如教你搞个网站，或者投一球，这样的话，你就直接跟他说老爸教我。。。。呗！

Do something together! 一起干些事情吧！

It’ll be easier to talk if you’re involved in an activity. Dad might not be thrilled about going to the mall, and you might not want to spent the afternoon at the home improvement store, but maybe you’d both have fun ice-skating at the local indoor rink. Look for common ground, and be prepared to compromise. 如果你们共同做一件事情，交流区来那就容易一点了。老爸可能对逛街不感冒，你也不喜欢一下午都待在家居用品店里，但是你们都有兴趣去室内溜冰场玩。主动去找些共同爱好，学会迁就彼此！

Need more ideas? Try doing something active, like riding bikes or inline skating. Suggest a walk together after dinner, and then use the time to ask him to explain something in the day’s news. Or ask your dad to teach you a skill he’s great at, like playing chess. He’ll love that you’re interested in him, and you’ll learn a skill! 更多的建议想听么？多参加些体育运动，自行车骑行，或者轮滑都是不错的选择！饭后一起散散步，利用这个机会说说今天的一些好玩的事。或者，请教老爸一个他非常擅长领域的问题，比如下棋。你对他感兴趣的事情感兴趣会让他开心，而且你也能学到东西！

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