Dont live your life by attaching to others

Don’t live your life by attaching to others
Turn what you ask of others to yourself.

For example, if you complain that the other one doesn't care enough about you, you should care more about the other one instead.

If you blame the other person for not understanding you, you should try to understand the other person with more empathy.

Please be noted that you should care about others sincerely and let go of the desire to get the same in return, or even act in a worse way: “I have been so caring to you, why don’t you treat me well enough?”

Only those who are insufficient inside will pursue the attention from the outside.

Don’t always think of your own happiness and pain.

Open your heart to give, to be grateful, and to love and care for others, thus allowing your heart to be filled with the treasure of goodness.

不要附庸他人而活
       把要求别人的，都反过来要求自己。譬如，埋怨对方对自己关心不够，自己就要更多关心对方；怪对方不理解自己，自己就要多换位思考，理解对方。

      注意：要真正去关心他人，放下希望回报的心，而不是变本加厉：“我这么关心你了，你为何还对我不够好？”内心贫瘠的人，才会追求外在的重视；不要总想着自己的苦乐，把心打开，去付出，去感恩，去关爱他人，让心装满善的珍宝。