Whose business?
In our daily life, we often see many things that “should” be done but are left undone. In a sense, it is very easy for usto see others’ negligence. The truth is, firstly, we may not totally understand why he behaves in such a way. Maybe he has his own reasons and considerations,or he is in trouble and thinks only for himself; or he lacks experience. The most important point is: what is our state of mind? What standing point? What attitude? Are we willing to try our very best to solve the problem for the teamor are we content with just handling our own business well?
If people are opposed to each other,starting a tug of war, both will consider the other side selfish. The other side of the coin is that when we judge others as selfish, we are mostly under the sway of selfishness ourselves and not happy with our “self "left unsatisfied by others. In a family, if we all calculate who contributes more and everyone emphasizes his small self, then it is very hard to create harmony in the family. The basis of a happy family is tolerance and mutual understanding.
People all have their own views, interests,and personal considerations. Thus, we suffer, create evil karma, and thus go back and forth in the six realms. If we can for sake our “self”, we may not be annoyed by any loss of interests. We are all ignorant beings who tricks ourselves, trick others and be tricked by others. Both sides are piteous. So,what’s the use to complain against others? If you do not want to be driven by afflictions, try hard to practice right now.
去私心，平己见//私心
在工作、生活中，
常常遇到很多“应该”去做
而没有人去做的事，
也就是说我们很容易看到别人的问题。
首先，ta为什么会这么做，
我们并不完全了解，
有可能有其他原因、其他考虑，
也有可能是ta的烦恼私心或经验不足。
但最重要的是：我们自己是什么状态，
什么立场，什么态度。
是否愿意尽自己的力量
去解决团体的问题？
还是只管好自己
手里本有的事就可以了？
如果彼此对立，互相拔河，
就会觉得对方自私；
反过来说，
当我们觉得对方自私的时候，
其实是自己的私心在主导，
因为对方没有满足“我”的需求。
在一个家庭中，
如果总是计较谁付出得多，
每个人都强调和维护自己的小我，
那就很难有和睦。
彼此理解、互相体谅，
是家庭幸福的基础。
人都有自己的立场和利益，
有自己的私心，
会起烦恼、造恶业，
所以才会在六道中轮回。
如果自己可以放下，
也不会因为利益受损
而感到愤懑了。
大家都是凡夫，
自欺欺人被人欺，
自他都很可怜，
怨恨他人又有何用呢？
不想再做烦恼的奴隶，
就奋起修行吧。
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