Susan三叶草 2021年12月13日上午5:59

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Intending to build a satisfying personal life alongside their professional life, making choices specifically to provide a better life for their family,they unwittingly overlook their spouse and children.Investing time and energy in these relationships doesn't offer them that same immediate sense of achievement that a fast-track career does.You can neglect your relationship with your spouse, and on a day-today basis, it doesn't seem as if things are deteriorating. Your spouse is still there when you get home every night.And kids find new ways to misbehave all the time. It's really not until twenty years down the road that you can put your hands on your hips and say,“We raised good kids.”
In fact, you'll often see the same sobering pattern when looking at the personal lives of many ambitious people.Though they may believe that their family is deeply important to them,they actually allocate fewer and fewer resources to the things they would say matter most.
Few people set out to do this. The decisions that cause it to happen often seem tactical—just small decisions that they think won't have any larger impact. But as they keep allocating resources in this way— and although they often won't realize it—they're implementing a strategy vastly different from what they intend.
他们打算在建立职业生活的同时有一个令人满意的个人生活，为他们的家庭提供更好的生活，做出了特别的选择，无意中忽视了他们的配偶和孩子。在个人生活中投入时间和精力，并不能像快速职业生涯那样给他们带来立竿见影的成就感。你可以忽略你和你配偶的关系，在日常生活中，事情似乎并没有恶化。每天晚上你回家的时候，你的配偶还在。孩子们总能找到新的方法来做错事。并非到二十年之后，你才会两手叉腰说:“我们养育了好孩子。”
事实上，当你观察许多雄心勃勃的人的个人生活时，你会经常看到令人警醒的模式。虽然他们可能认为他们的家庭对他们来说非常重要，但他们实际上分配给他们认为最重要的事情的资源少之又少。
很少有人打算这样做。把精力放在家庭上的决定通常看起来是有策略的——其实只是一些他们认为不会产生更大影响的小决定。但是，当他们继续以这种方式分配资源时——尽管他们通常意识不到这一点——但是他们正在实施的战略与他们意想不到的意图大相径庭。

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