What others do is their business 别人怎么样，是别人的事

What others do is their business.

【Xian’er says so: “Don’t always make trouble with me.”】

Xian’er asked Shifu: “Wang Xiaowu always makes trouble with me,
but how come?”
Shifu kept quiet.
Xian’er asked again: “Shifu, is there any Mantra I can chant that will make those I dislike disappear? ”
Shifu didn’t say anything.
Xian’er continued asking: “Shifu, is there any ritual I can follow that will stop Wang Xiaowu from bothering me?”
Shifu kept quiet.
Xian’er said: “Shifu, your silence scares me. This is giving me goose bumps.
Alright, I’ll go do some reading …”

Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’s insight on the path to speaking like a Buddha.
What others do is their business;
What you do is yours.
It is destiny that we meet in this life.
No matter how others are,
We have to make a kind encounter. 

别人怎么样，是别人的事

【贤二如是说：别老跟我过不去 】

贤二问师父：“王小五总是跟我过不去，这是为什么呢？”
师父没吭声。
贤二又问师父：“师父，咱们佛门里有没有什么“咒语”，
一念，就能够永远见不到自己讨厌的人。”
师父又没吭声。
贤二又问师父：“师父，咱们佛门里有什么“法”，做一下，
就能让王小五别老是跟我过不去了......”
师父还是没有吭声。
贤二说：“师父，您这样老是不吭声，
我怎么觉得心里发毛，好吧，我去看书了.....”

以下来自我师父的《好好说话》
别人怎么样，是别人的事；
自己怎么做，是自己的事。
今生能够在一起，
都是有缘，
不管别人怎样，
自己要结一份善缘。