The third type of unhealthy belief that holds us back, is unhealthy beliefs about the world. We tend to think that the world owes us something. We think, "If I put in enough hard work, then I deserve success." But expecting success to fall into your lap like some sort of cosmic reward, will only lead to disappointment. But I know it's hard to give up our bad mental habits. It's hard to get rid of those unhealthy beliefs that we've carried around with us for so long. But you can't afford not to give them up. Because sooner or later, you're going to hit a time in your life where you need all the mental strength that you can muster.
第三种不健康的信念让我们望而却步，那就是对世界的不健康信念。我们倾向于认为世界欠我们一些东西。我们认为如果我付出了足够的努力，那么我就应该获得成功。但是期望这种成功，就像期望某种上天的赏赐落入你的怀中一样，就只能带来失望。但我们知道，放弃我们的坏心理习惯，是很难的，很难摆脱那些我们保留了太久的不健康观念。但你不能不放弃它们，因为你迟早会在生命中遇到一个时刻，为了专注你需要调动所有的精神力量。
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TED 13 things mentally strong people don't do
演讲者：Amy Morin 艾米·莫林
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