The courage to be yourself

To me, successful is getting to the point where you are absolutely comfortable with yourself, and it does not matter how many things you have acquired. The ability to learn to say no and not to feel guilty about it, to me, is about the greatest success I have achieved. 

对我来说，成功与你的物质条件无关，当你感到绝对自在的时候，你就是成功的。对我来说，学会说“不”，并且不为此感到内疚，就是我所取得的最大成功。

The fact that I have, you know, in the public’eye, done whatever is fine. It's all a part of a process for growing for me, but to me to have the kind of internal strength and internal courage it takes to say no, I will not let you treat me this way, is what success is all about. 

我希望你们懂得：不要在意大众的眼光，你做什么都没问题。这都是我成长过程的一部分，但对我来说，成功就是你敢于说“不！我再也不许你这样对待我”的那份内在力量和勇气。

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