Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you, I’m responsive to most of your major needs as a person. This responsibility does not entail my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for you. It does imply acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your misery. 爱意味着对我所爱的人有责任感。如果我爱你,我就会对你合理的需求有求必应,这个责任并不是我需要替你做自己能够做的事,也不意味着我要管理你的生活,但它确实意味着承认我的为人和我的所作所为对你有影响,因此我直接与你的幸福和痛苦有牵连!
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