Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it isbetter to bend a little than to break. --- Jane Wells
学一些让步的智慧，因为稍微弯曲总比折断要好。
Many people shy away from conflict. Butinaction doesn’t solve disagreements. The better way is to look for commonground and compromise.
In the face of conflict, don’t becomeaggressive or avoid solving the problem. You need to take time to understandthe real cause of the situation. You need to see the other person’s point ofview and find an acceptable way forward.
Make no mistake:
Compromise isn’t aboutlowering your standards or giving up your values for others. Compromise iswrong when it means sacrificing a principle. It’s about reducing your demandsor changing your opinion in order to reach an agreement.
Conflict can evoke strong emotions so thekey is to deal with it when you’re feeling calm. Take time to think the problemthrough and plan a constructive way to handle the situation. Reach an agreementthat is acceptable to both sides.
许多人都会逃避矛盾冲突。然而什么都不做并不能解决争端。最好的办法就是寻找双方的共同点然后做出让步。
面对矛盾冲突时，不能咄咄逼人，也不能逃避问题。你需要花些时间了解问题产生的真正原因。你需要以对方的角度去看待问题然后找到进一步合理解决的方法。
但不要搞错: 让步并不是降低标准或者放弃价值观去迎合别人。如果意味着牺牲原则，这样的让步是错误的。让步意味着为了达成共识，减少自己的要求或是改变自己的看法。
矛盾冲突容易引起强烈的情绪，所以处理矛盾的关键就是保持冷静。花一些时间把问题思考清楚，计划出解决问题的合理方案，达成让双方都能够接受的共识。
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