Day17

听该音频：在群里发main idea前请不要看以下内容！

口语环节：20mins①自己控制音频一句句读,建议完成这个步骤两遍，自己读一句话的时候音频要关掉 ②放完整音频，影子跟读，音频中途不能停（如果觉得快，可调整倍速）这个步骤也建议两遍③去群里语音读卡里发的文本内容，截图群里面你发的语音去微博超话打卡，打满20天送模拟面试一次哦

It is human nature to want to be liked and accepted by others. We accept the status quo for what it is because everyone around us does. We tip-toe our way through life by doing things in order to please others. 

想要被别人喜欢和接受是人类的天性。我们接受现状，因为我们周围的每个人都这样做。我们为了取悦别人做一些事情，我们小心翼翼地生活。

Eventually, our actions, appearances, and lives become molded by how we think other people perceive us. But the truth is, what others think about us can often adversely impact the choices we make and the things that we do. This desire to conform to the wishes of others can seriously conflict with our ability to lead independent and rich lives. 

最终，我们的行为、外表和生活会被我们臆想出的别人的看法所塑造。但事实是，别人对我们的看法往往会对我们做出的选择和我们所做的事情产生负面影响。这种渴望他人认可的想法是我们过上独立富裕生活的巨大障碍。

How many times have you pondered over questions like: How are these clothes going to make me look? What will my colleagues think if I speak out? Are those people talking shit behind my back? If I take this job, what will my friends and family think of me? 

你考虑过多少次这样的问题：这些衣服会让我看起来怎么样？如果我说出来，我的同事会怎么想？那些人会在背后对我说三道四吗？如果我接受这份工作，我的朋友和家人会怎么看我？ 

Look! People are entitled to think whatever they want. Just as you are entitled to think what you want! What people think of you cannot change who you are or what you are worth - unless you allow them to. 

听着，人们有权随心所欲地思考，就像你有权去想别人一样！人们对你的看法并不能改变你是谁和你的价值——除非你允许他们改变。

This is your life to live. At the end of the day, you are the only person who needs to approve of your own choices. Well, unless of course if you're married. That's a whole other topic! 

这是你的生活。最后，你是唯一需要能决定自己选择的人。当然，除非你结婚了。但这完全是另一个话题！