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The conundrum was this: given that every last part of it had been replaced, was it still Theseus's ship? The Athenians still called it Theseus's Ship ... but was it?
I want to turn that into a similar philosophical question for you: if your children gain their priorities and values from other people...whose children are they?
Yes,they are still your children— but you see what I'm getting at.The risk is not that every moment spent with another adult will be indelibly transferring inferior values. Nor is this about making the argument that you need to protect your children from the “big bad world”—that you must spend every waking moment with them.You shouldn't.Balance is important,and there are valuable lessons your children will gain from facing the challenges that life will throw at them on their own.
Rather,the point is that even if you're doing it with the best of intentions, if you find yourself heading down a path of outsourcing more and more of your role as a parent,you will lose more and more of the precious opportunities to help your kids develop their values— which may be the most important capability of all.
这个难题是:考虑到每一个部分都被换了，它还是忒修斯的船吗？雅典人仍然称它为忒修斯的船...但是还是吗？
我想把它变成一个类似的哲学问题:如果你的孩子从其他人那里获得了优先观和价值观...他们是谁的孩子？
是的，他们仍然是你的孩子——但是你明白我的意思。风险并不在于每时每刻都和另一个成年人在一起，会不可避免地传递低劣的价值观。也不是说你需要保护你的孩子远离“大坏世界”——你必须和他们共度醒着的每一刻。你不应该那样做。平衡很重要，你的孩子会从独自面对生活扔给他们的挑战中获得宝贵的经验。
相反，关键是，即使你是出于好意，如果你发现自己越来越多地将自己作为父母的角色外包出去，你将失去越来越多帮助孩子发展价值观的宝贵机会——这可能是他们最重要的能力。

Whose children are they

Whose children are they

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