Fun by definition

2022-03-03 14:04:2201:39 11

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In our case,for example,we knew we couldn't simply order our children to love work.Instead,we always tried to find ways for the kids to work together with us,and to make it fun.I would,for example,never work in the yard unless I had at least one— and often two— kids hanging on to the handle of the mower. For the longest time, they weren't really helping at all. Pushing a lawn mower with children hanging on,barely able to touch the ground,didn't make mowing easier. But that didn't matter. What really mattered was that it allowed us to define work for them as something that was a good thing.We did it together.It was fun, by definition. And I made sure that they knew they were helping Dad, helping the family.
Before long,this value became embedded in our family's culture; but it wasn't by magic or good luck. It was achieved by thoughtfully designing activities and doing simple things like mowing the lawn together. We tried to be consistent about it; we made sure the kids knew why we were doing it; and we always thanked them for it.
以我们为例，我们知道不能简单地命令孩子们热爱工作。相反，我们总想办法让孩子们和我们一起工作，而且让工作变得有趣。例如，我从来不在院子里工作，除非我有至少一个——通常是两个——孩子抓着割草机的把手。在很长一段时间里，他们一点也没帮上忙。推着挂着孩子的割草机，孩子们几乎接触不到地面，割草并不容易。但这无关紧要。重要的是，让我们能够把为家庭工作定义为一件好事。我们一起做事。理论上说这很有趣。确保他们知道他们在帮助爸爸，帮助这个家庭。
不久，这种价值观就根植于我们家族的文化中；这不是靠魔法或好运。这是通过精心设计的活动和一起修剪草坪等简单的事情实现的。我们一直这么做。我们确保孩子们知道我们为什么这样做；我们也总是感谢他们。

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